I am...a mommy

This is not a flattering picture of any of us, but it is a glimpse into my life at about 6:30 most every morning.

This may sound bad, but most days I feel more like a caretaker than a mommy. My days are jam-packed with providing meals, baths, clean clothes, clean diapers and band-aids. I clean up mess after mess after mess. I try to work some play time in there somewhere and on a really good day, I get a shower myself. This is not unlike any other parent, of course. It's a very tough job, at least for me, but I truly believe that any competent adult could perform these tasks if need be.

This week both babies came down with Roseola. I had never heard of this but basically it consists of 3 days of an up and down fever, lots of crankiness and then a head to toe rash that is supposed to last 4-7 days. Pretty much harmless, but tough on everyone. Thankfully, they didn't get this at exactly the same time. Rachael got us started on Monday and Jilly's fever didn't kick in until Thursday.

In the middle of the night, when your child is crying, cranky and clingy, NOBODY will do except Mommy. Very rarely do I get to snuggle with and comfort just one baby, but this week I've had the pleasure (and I do truly mean pleasure) of getting up and comforting both babies at one point or another. As I sit with them in the dark, softly singing, rubbing their backs, and letting them sleep on my chest - I am in bliss. I am the one they want. I am the one. Not any old competent adult. ME.

With your first baby, you have all the time in the world to snuggle with them and comfort them when needed. Since we went from 1 to 3, it's very hard and very rare that one kid can get my undivided attention for any length of time. All three of them had had to wait, to cry, to whine and to fuss as I desperately try to finish up with one before I can get to the other. When both babies are crying and fussing, all I can do is drop to my knees and snuggle with both of them. I don't wish them to get sick (because trust me - dealing with two sick babies is no walk in the park and we've had to do it a lot) but the time I have spent with both of them this week has been priceless and rare and it has reminded me that I am not just an unshowered, out of shape caretaker, I am a mommy and the luckiest woman in the world.

Spring sprung..for about 3 days!

April in Seattle is, well, wet. But occasionally we get a burst of beautiful spring weather and it is like the whole city has taken a happy pill! This week we had a few really nice days and it was great! We go outside pretty much every day of the year...but the nice days really do help to make up for the rest of them!

Exhibit A: All the 40-ish dads playing basketball on a beautiful spring day (yes, Mike was sore for days after this!).

Exhibit B: Marble size hail 6 days later - are you kidding me?

Exhibit C: Back to spring - 8 days later.

A few nice days scattered in here and there help us to bridge the gap until summer, which starts every year on July 5!

From the mouths of babes

I'm sure this will not be my first post in this area, but here you go:

1. Jilly has started making a "sssss" sound so we've been asking her what a snake says and trying to get her to do it on cue. Today while we were watching Ellie's gymnastics class I was trying to get her to do it for my sister. "Jilly - what does a snake say?" Out comes this enormous BURP! Of course all the other moms heard it too and we just cracked up!

2. Today as I'm changing one of the babies (when am I not?) Ellie is sitting next to me on the floor (where I spend my entire day) observing and she says, "Mommy, Rachael's buns and your boobies both jiggle like jello". Thank you for that, my sweet daughter!! Ugh.

Sorry, no pictures will be posted for anything that jiggles like jello today.

The cat's me-OW!!

Cats are a big part of our lives. Last night my sister and I went to see CATS at the Paramount Theater. We had a yummy dinner before and had a great time together, as always. It was her birthday present to me, and I loved it!! Thank you big sister!

In the world of real cats, we have two. Two babies, two cats. Hmm. One of the cats, who we have always thought is not the sharpest knife, apparently has more brains than we thought. He stays upstairs ALL day and graces us with his presence promptly at 8:00pm once everyone is tucked away in bed. That's Morton and he avoids the babies at all costs.



Molly, on the other hand has always been downstairs and hangs out with us, kids or not. We have always thought she was the brains of the operation but now I'm starting to wonder. This picture depicts Molly's apparent desperate need for attention as she constantly plunks herself right down in front of the babies - for better or for worse. Note the firm grasp that Rachael has on the cat's tail and the look of determination on Jillian's face as she can hardly wait to get in on the action. Note also Mike's look of "Oh no!", yet he makes no move to stop the attack.

Molly does this to them multiple times a day. They pound on her and really want to SQUEEZE her as hard as they can! The more fur that comes out, the better. They squeal in delight every time they see either of the cats -Morton heads upstairs, Molly heads for them. It's weird but if you have a cat you know that they can be a bit odd.

Ellie has finally figured out that if you are nice to the cats, they are nice to you. Molly LOVES to sit with Ellie when she has her snugly blanket out. Of course that could be because Ellie also gives the cats 10 treats at a time...

In other baby news, Jillian sprouted her first tooth today (or at least I first noticed it today) and Rachael is not far behind. Rachael figured out how to stand up this week which great since she used to just sit on her knees in front of the couch and grunt and scream and get frustrated because she couldn't figure out how to stand up. Yay for Rachael! Jillybean on the other hand can do it too but not as consistently and frankly doesn't seem to care as much at this point. Besides, she has a tooth - take that big sister!!

Easter...and a good place to start!

Hello and welcome to my new blog! This is something I have wanted to do for the better part of a year. There is so much I've wanted to journal about since the babies have been born but as my free time is very low and my exhaustion level is often very high, it has taken me 10 months to come up with a way to do it. Even though I could just journal for myself, I wanted to go this route so that I could share with friends and family as well. Being shy on free time, I also have been terrible about keeping in touch with people. For that, I sincerely apologize. So, for all of those people that I owe a phone call to, owe an email or a thank you note to, or have just flat out neglected over the last year and a half...this blog is for you.

We hope everyone had a nice Easter! Our Easter was very low key. Mike has been pretty sick for the last several days and my parents are out of town. As is usually the case when they are gone, my sister and I tend to stage a more casual holiday affair. My sister hosted a small and wonderful brunch complete with stuffed french toast, "pork products", as we joked about, and yes even a splash of champagne! Between Ellie and my nieces, I think they may have emptied an entire can of whipped cream! How can you go wrong?

On Saturday we attended an egg hunt, again with my sister and her family. We live 5 minutes apart - to say we do a lot of things together would be an understatement. The clouds teased us a lot but I think we escaped with just a drop or two of rain. April in Seattle - gotta love it. The babies, as always, were happy to get out of the house and even happier to make the Easter bunny just a little uncomfortable as she tried to juggle two babies and still strike an appropriate Easter bunny-ish like pose. Ellie had such a crash from her sugar high that she fell asleep on the couch watching TV with Mike. This is something that has only happened twice in her entire life - a good time was had by all!